A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life.A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. Maybe you're happy with your pattern — you're a blissful serial monogamist or a sometime-dater — but for the rest of you who've had it UP TO HERE ... When it comes to love, your gut (and by gut, we mean vagina) can sometimes lead you astray. Try out the shy guy whose sense of humor you have to draw out.Money can't hold a relationship together — you can take that one to the bank.7. Do yourself a favor and bring your *ss back to the present moment. Do yourself (and all of us) a favor: keep them there. Two vodka tonics, a first date with a semi-decent dude or 50-cent wing night at your favorite locale aren't open invitations to let the flood gates open.9. There comes a point when loneliness will invite itself into your apartment in the middle of the night. There'll come a time where it's in all of our lives.
Again, many points on this post would apply if you switched the genders around. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life. Date the less-than-dapper dude who might not be the best arm candy.Quite frankly, that applies to being in the relationship iself, too. Maybe it means you have to deal with his neat-freak tendencies, or perhaps you earn more than he does.A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with.
A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions.However, if you are a man (independent, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a woman. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents.