he term “sinking stomach” doesn’t even begin to describe the moment when you realize that the person you’re on a date with — who seemed perfect in both their online profile and subsequent phone calls — is nothing but a cold-hearted player.
If you’re looking for a serious relationship, you want to catch those clues sooner rather than later, before you fall too hard for someone who’s only interested in passing dalliances.
But if you sense too much vagueness and hesitation in conversation, your date could be a cover-up artist. “Yes, mystery can be attractive, but too much mystery usually spells trouble.
If your love interest, after a few dates, still doesn’t want to open up about past relationships or can’t be pinned down regarding hopes for future relationships, consider it a warning sign.” It’s only human for someone to embellish on his or her best qualities a bit in an online dating profile.
The smooth operator at the club, the guy who has impeccable style and oozes confidence when he asks for your number…players generally abide by a certain m.o. If you can’t see him, how can you tell if you’re being played?
It’s all a numbers game to him, and he’s in it to win it!No thanks…I’ll wait for a guy who can write an email to, not to the masses.His Profile Is Perfect-Perfectly witty, intelligent, with perfectly composed photos and a silly, yet charming headline.But in person, watch out for major inconsistencies.
“Is the person’s profile radically different than real-life presentation?
It all goes back to attention-players crave it, and if he can get it from the comfort of his own home, he’s not going to meet you.