Some Christian Men have not even taken off in the dating game mostly because they took the last tip to mean that they had to go all CIA on the ladies they meet. It is plain stupid laying out a list of premeditated questions on your first date, when there are a lot of great conversations to be had on a first date that help you discover the person more and not appear weird. dates should be fun, don’t turn it into an inquisition.
Have reasonable standards and preferences, I am not necessarily talking about physical preferences, though that too must be reasonable.
While we have internal regulation as Christians in the form of our Spirit inspired convictions and knowledge of the bible, it is still not enough.
I know the ropes because I too have walked it, tail between my legs sometimes and some other times chest out.Make sure friends to whom you can be accountable know about the dating situation and try to date in groups as often as possible.