I guess that I am content, but not content.” Robinson would say to that girl that she can ask a young man to dinner. But if you want to get to know people, then just ask someone to dinner every once in a while.So chicas, if you want to date more, go ahead an ask a guy on a date. Obviously there’s a lot of pressure to date in Mormon culture, but if you’re not ready to date, just get to know people and have fun. Another serious dimension of perfectionism is to hold others to our unrealistic, judgmental, or unforgiving standards.“Now there were a few that didn’t and because there were a few that didn’t, my generation looked back and said ‘Well, maybe it would be better if our kids didn’t date.'” Okay, but what about rejection?Even though return missionaries learn about being rejected for their whole missions, it still hurts.Of course, we should consider qualities we desire in ourselves and in a potential spouse.We should maintain our highest hopes and standards.
Rather, devotion and love grow as two imperfect people build, bless, help, encourage, and forgive along the way.When you begin dating, go with one or more additional couples.