I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. I don't have time for that behavior—that's why I like mature women." "She was very beautiful and caring and we had similar interests.She offered me the opportunity to see another perspective on a lot of different issues. She made me realize how important I could be in making someone else happy.Resolutely, Fred abandoned the "young woman trial period." He knew he liked older women and that was his standard. It's adventurous for both of us, because it's a whole new exciting journey.Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do." "My first relationship with an older woman—I was 20 and she was 36—lasted two and a half years.He explained, often quite humorously, how ridiculous he felt trying to have meaningful conversation over blaring music at a dance club. You know this is the kind of person who's going to tell you exactly what they want and they are more sure of themselves than the people my age or younger.His brief experimentation with younger females only reaped endless head games, confusion and immature behavior. They were great friends and then she began to pursue him. Older women are much more well rounded—they know what they feel and why they feel it."I have a preference for women starting at about 10 years older than myself and up.
Their sentiments represent a very large proportion of the opinions we heard expressed. When I saw her, I thought she was just the perfect woman for me and I was sure about that.Pat offered me space, devotion and herself, which I couldn't find in anyone else. She is a best friend who reflects back to me what a good person I am, which builds my confidence and self-esteem.I now have a better job and feel better about myself than ever before."—Neil, 35"I find that I'm attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. I enjoy sitting down to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation I can appreciate and enjoy. They have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. It's really a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive.RELATED: Love lessons: Understanding personality types for a happier relationship Fred's first older-woman experience occurred when he was 21 years old and Gretchen was 37. They are both still very close and see each other regularly.
Not only did they have a tremendous friendship as the basis of their relationship, but an extraordinary sex life as well.
In my opinion, age has nothing to do with our relationship.