You’ve met a really great guy around campus, and things seem to be going well.
You flirt, you text and you hang out, but for some reason, he just won’t make the first move.
On the other hand, the fact that ladies are not expected to make the first move makes things even harder for girls, especially, if you’re naturally shy, but you have a huge crush on a guy.
Here are some tips that could help you to finally pick up the courage to approach your crush and it’s not as scary as you might think.1.
Here are a few ideas about how to make the first move.
If you’re at a club, at her car or her front door, lean back against the wall, reach for her hands and pull her toward you. This time, when you start to pull away, move back in and plant one on her lips.
Actually, shy guys often pretend to be overly-confident, and such behavior can push girls away. The scariest thing that can happen is that your crush might just say ‘no’.4. Even if that happens, he’s not the last man on the planet and the world around us won’t stop turning, just because he said “No”.
What if you’re both shy but you both pretend to look confident to one another…What if you both want one and same thing but hold back because of that illusion of confidence? Think about possible ‘what if’s’Get rid of your irrational fear of rejection, but prepare for all possible outcomes of the situation. Well, you might learn that he’s just as much into you, as you are into him. You’re a strong girl and you will survive, isn’t it a very liberating thought? Some rules are made for breaking Maybe one of the main reasons why girls avoid making the first move is that they are afraid to look desperate.
Read through these suggestions and pick one that works for you.You can slowly move in for a kiss or see if she moves toward you kisses you.