They haven’t heard from their old flames yet, and they start to fear that they never will. Stop staring at your phone and checking your text messages 100 times a day. Obsessing over his lack of communication won’t make him reach out any faster, it will just make you crazy. After playing a bit of cat and mouse with your ex, you can finally agree to see him. Instead, start with a simple text message: You get the point.
But just as you are reaching a point of desperation, he is reaching the height of missing you. Breakups are basically a play for power, and if you can stick to the act just a bit longer… Get back to your life instead, remaining confident in the fact that he will eventually cave and call. This is where all of your hard work will finally pay off. Make him think of a good moment that you two cherished, but don’t cave just yet.
That ignites a touch of regret in him, as your former flame wonders whether he may have made a mistake in letting you go. The best part is that he now realizes you aren’t just waiting at home for him.
He can’t call you up for a late night drunken bootie call, or decide he has changed his mind and beg to see you tomorrow.
In fact, get a journal and use that to document this emotional process.
Just don’t let anyone else in on what you are currently feeling.
Which is probably what happened to you and your old flame.Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and a little distance between you and your ex boyfriend right now is exactly what the doctor ordered.If you want to get your former flame to miss you, you need to pack a bag and peace out. Call up some friends and propose a grand adventure.It is an endeavor that starts with reminding him of what he has lost. Your ex boyfriend was lucky to have you before and he will be lucky to have you again.
Here’s a breakdown of the steps we’ll discuss to make him miss you: And once you’re ready to make him miss you, it takes one simple text message to get his heart racing.
Because ironically, the best way to make him miss you, is to make him believe you have stopped missing him.