They can't keep up with me." These days Brenda is content to "just have fun sampling all types of hot young men." Susan explains her own predilection for young men: "They provide more creative excitement: Like me they have diverse interests in theater, music, and film, and look beyond what's on the New York Times best seller list." Equally appealing for the never-married 41-year-old Houston account executive: "Guys in this age group seem less obsessed with their careers and the roles men are supposed to play in a relationship.An older guy can be more of a child than a young one." Translation: An ex close to her age lost this lady because he placed his needs well above hers.If we want to lose weight, we might forgo that dish of ice cream, even though we desire it," Buss says."Similarly, men who experience sexual desires for younger women when they are already married may choose to act or not to act on their desires.
As we’ve learned more about ourselves, and more about how reproduction works, we’ve said ‘Hang on, we can cleave the usual linkage between sexual activity and having babies.And straight men everywhere are destined to run on the treadmill of unending attraction to mid-twenties women well into our octogenarian years, regardless of whether or not we actually act on it.As Buss admits, in the modern environment, "these preferences may indeed lead to problems." Independent Psychologist Dr George Fieldman agrees: "As long as the most fecund women of the population are in their mid twenties we will always see this sexual attraction," Fieldman warns.If we use our technology to separate that natural process, we can have lots of fun and sex without having the baby’.’ In other words, there’s a glitch in the system.
Men are still programmed to sexually desire young women, but that desire isn’t bearing fruit due to contraception.Cougee [koo-gee] - "Older women are a turn-on." -- John, 35-year-old male Here's to you, Mrs. A 2003 survey conducted by the National Association of Retired Persons revealed that one-third of single women between 40 and 60 are dating younger men. They try harder and are not cynical or spoiled by bad past relationships." Like many women who consciously seek out younger men, the California publicist is a refugee from an early bad marriage.