Age is not just a number - with time, we grow emotionally and evolve as a person with the things we experience throughout the years. In the past, I've dated guys that young; but that's as far as it would go. She must really yearn for those old "college" days???
They have been married for 13 years and have an 11 year old daughter and you would never know the age difference.
I was young, impulsive, impatient and had barely any wisdom.
I cannot possibly understand what a 21 year old could do spiritually, intellectually or otherwise (other than maybe physically).
he needs to embrace his youth, its trials and tribulations; not to mention college and career choices... People need to experience as much of the menu life has to offer before they know what their favorite meal is... NO way I would date a 21 year old no matter how mature she "claims" to be. I put up with their relationship...could have so chosen someone more mature...
otherwise, they'll come to a point where they start wondering what else is out there. I just don't see the relation in any form or fashion. I had to clean up after her and do all the cooking.He's an adult - let him make his decisions (discuss at length the pros/cons if you feel it must be discussed) - but if he wants you, and you want him - why deny each other! Was never going to last forever, but I would not want to have missed that part of my life for all the amatuer fumblings with girls my own age back then! the pics on my profile i was 28,the woman that took the pic was my 48 yr old g/f....let me tell you...dating older is alot easier than younger.....usually an older woman or man has stability..you dont have to deal with alot of experience was great dated for 2 yrs....still friends to this day just came back from keys snorkeling with her,shes 52 im 32...when its us i dont think about the age.....i think about how she makes me we have tossed it around and as tragic as it is she is 20yrs older so its not a reality,so we just enjoy each others company as much as we can as long as we can I've dated guys that age.